Thoughts on Fatherhood


George H. W. Bush: We cannot hope only to leave our children a bigger car, a bigger bank account. We must hope to give them a sense of what it means to be a loyal friend, a loving parent, a citizen who leaves his home, his neighborhood, and town better than he found it.

Bill Colby: You know the only people who are always sure about the proper way to raise children? Those who’ve never had any.

Robert Fulghum: Don’t worry that the children never listen to you, worry that they are always watching you.

Thomas Bray:  Never fear spoiling children by making them too happy. Happiness is the atmosphere in which all good affections grow.

Malcolm Stevenson Forbes: Let your children go if you want to keep them.

Carl Gustav Jung: Nothing has a stronger influence psychologically on their environment and especially on their children than the unlived life of the parent.

Tom Cruise:  I’m a father, you know. I always wanted to be a father. Remember when you first held your child? It’s like wow, tremendous sense of responsibility.

Eminem: I’m busy, and I stay busy, but I want to remain in control of things where I can stay in the city and go home at night to my kids. I’m a father before anything else, and anybody who knows me knows that that’s the most important thing to me, that I can be close to my kids and be there.

Nat King Cole: I felt something impossible for me to explain in words. Then when they took her away, it hit me. I got scared all over again and begin to feel giddy. Then it came to me – I was a father.

Author Unknown: A father is someone who carries pictures where his money used to be.

Posted: July 22, 2009 Comments (0)

The Agony of Letting Go


We both decided to break up;

I endure the pain and try to stop my tears to drop.

It hurts even more looking at your pouting lips;

For the last time you wrap me

With your sweet embrace.

 

The feelilng of sadness,

The sense of loneliness,

Reminiscing your sweet kisses,

Broke my heart into pieces.

 

Wherever I go, whatever I do,

All the things around, just remind me of you;

My tears constantly fall,

And I can’t help it, for now I care for nothing at all.

 

I think of you every single minute,

Hoping that you still love me, even just a bit;

Here, I am now missing you,

Wondering if I can open your heart,

And still find my slot.

 

I wish I had never let you go,

I find it hard to let this feeling flow;

Now, I don’t know where to go,

Without you, this world spins so slow.

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quotes…make you think…make you realize

These are some of those messages we might have read through text. Often times, we ignore these messages thinking they don’t make any sense. Just a forwarded text. but if you get to analyze it, you’ll see that it’s not just a crappy text message. It’s more than that. Even a "joke" could mean something. It reflects ourselves. It get in touch with our inner feelings. It may just be a short message but it may inspire those who are lucky in love to love more; spans emotions from hate and despair to acceptance and admiration; soothes a troubled mind; may strengthen our faith in God and can make us realize that there are reasons for everything. i am not saying that we rely on quotes but might, in some way, make us think….realize.

 

- Repeated experiences have one aim: to teach us the lesson we refuse to learn.

- People change for two reasons… either they learn enough that they want to…or they’ve been hurt enough that they have to.

- Understand h6w beautifully God has added one more day in your life. Not because you need it, but because someone else needs you.

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 to be cont…

Posted: July 21, 2009 Comments (0)